August 27, 2025

Dear Sidney,

I know this letter is now nearly two weeks late.

Honestly, I have put off writing it.

If I sit behind the computer and type these words, it means you are really 21. I know it’s cliched and nearly every middle-aged mom echos the same sentiments, but Sid it really does go too fast.

Your dad and I tried our best to raise you, stumbling along the way. We were so young and unaware. Yet still you have grown into the most exceptional human being.

You are a loyal friend,

a trusted advisor,

a thoughtful sister and daughter.

And on a recent July evening, I stood apart and watched you walk into the rest of your life, adding fiancée to the words that describe you. My heart bursting. Zayne your most perfect match. All the goodness I see in you I see in him as well.

Life does go on.

But you already knew that.

You also know how to hold all the heartache and the joy in one place.

Savor it all. Grief informs.

When faced with the choice, choose to believe in the goodness of people.

And don’t forget to take time to simply get out the map and chase adventure.

I love you forever and a day.

This is not the end of the road but the beginning of the next journey.

You will always be my heart walking outside my body.

Thank you for loving me.

Love,

Your Momma

PS- I would like to say the delay in my letter writing allowed this beauty to come out in time for it to be your 21st song, but I think your Dad had orchestrated it all. It’s as if he wrote these words for you.